Friday 13 February 2015

BeLated New Years Resolutions

So it is a new year and  I need new goals to set, I know I have left it a bit late to set some new year resolutions but to be honest it taking me a while to think of goals I need to set for myself this year and goals that  can actually stick to but now I have found two goals for 2015 that I hope to achieve this year

1) Stop caring about what people think of Me

This goal is really important to me because I feel that I'm constantly worrying about what people think about me and always seeking approval from others, and being insecure about how I look, so I really need to stop thinking in this way, I need to be happy in my own skin and need to stop comparing myself to others because not to be cliché and all, but their is only one of me and I should just work with what I got cos B**** I'M FABULOUS, lol but joke aside, I just need to accept that this is me and I'm not going to change for anybody happiness or approval I need to appreciate  all the good qualities I have and stop trying to pick things I don't like about myself. This is why Lena Durham is literally one of my idols because she doesn't give a crap about what people think of her she is not pressured by the media to look a certain way and she is hilarious AF. So I need to keep saying to myself, "stop comparing myself to others and stop caring about what people think and just be happy and enjoy life"

2)Need to Dance MORE!

I don't know what happen but I don't dance as much as I use to, after I lost some weight, for some reason I just stopped dancing, maybe because I was so head strong on losing weight and going jogging all the time that I lost the passion to dance, I use to regularly go to dance classes when I was younger, so I'm going to make it my mission to go and take dance lessons again, I have already started looking using good old youtube to look up dance tutorials but I feel it not really the same as having a dance teacher in the same room, so I've been looking around on the internet to see if there are any classes near my area, I have found some, so I'm gonna try them out, I think im gonna try going with a friend first then once I get comfortable I'll go by myself- actually you know what, I need to practice what I preach so because "I shouldn't care what people think", im gonna go by myself!

-A